Try to choose a color and fabric for all of the women and let each of them pick a style that she is comfortable with. Let them choose from a color family such as purple. Their options would be orchid, mauve, plum, lavender, etc. Or if you prefer to choose to your taste, you can choose a simple bridesmaid/maid of honor a-line or empire waist dress that flatters most figures. Your bridal attendants can wear the same color and personalize with different accessories. Internet shopping is great. You can email information from various sites back and forth and compare styles and prices easily.