Lets not forget the guys! Some grooms think that the fashion decisions are only for the bride. You need to decide what kind of tuxedo; formal, beach, informal, a tuxedo at all? The wedding attire of the groom, as well as that of the other men in the bridal party should compliment the attire of the bride and her attendants with respect to the degree of formality and the time of day for the wedding ceremony. Traditionally, the groom, best man, groomsmen, ushers and fathers dress alike, except the subtle difference in their accessories, style of shirt, tie, color of boutonnière, etc. Matching wedding attire should be worn by the ring bearer, if there is one.